Caleb Kaltenbach was raised by LGBT parents, marched in gay pride parades as a youngster, and experienced firsthand the hatred and bitterness of some Christians toward his family. However, then Caleb surprised everyone, including himself, by becoming a Christian...and a pastor.
Very few issues in Christianity are as divisive as the acceptance of the LGBT community in the church. As a pastor and as a person with beloved family members living a gay lifestyle, Caleb had to face this issue with courage and grace. Messy Grace shows us that Jesus' command to "love your neighbour as yourself" does not have an exception clause for a gay "neighbour" - or for that matter, any other "neighbour" we might find it hard to relate to. Jesus was able to love these people and yet still hold on to his beliefs. So can you. Even when it is messy.